Well, it has been quite some time since my last rant and although
it is the holiday season of many religions, I do have to get something
off my chest - so to speak.
Why the heck do I keep getting
greetings from Pagans/Witches which say Merry Christmas???
Gee, when those religious righters put up signs saying "Keep
the Christ in Christmas" they have a point. Although Christmas
has roots in Paganism, as does every other religion, when a Pagan
says to me "Merry Christmas" I really don't know how to
react. It's one thing to hear it in the stores, from co-workers
and Christian family members, and from folks who just assume that
everyone is Christian, but when I get a message or am greeted by
Pagans who say this to me, I am pretty astounded at the lack of
thought that goes with uttering what has become a common catch phrase.
Bah, Humbug!
It's not that I don't appreciate the sentiment. Certainly, when
confronted with such a greeting from well-meaning folks, I usually
respond with a "Happy Holidays to you too" - although
there are times when I will sneak in a "Happy Solstice"
- and receive puzzled stares in return. What to do, though, about
Pagan Merry Christmas's I haven't quite decided - although my first
reaction of wanting to smack them upside the head has been firmly
suppressed on many an occasion.
I think my favorite greeting this season came from a novice witch
who wanted guidance. She sent us an electronic greeting card complete
with the title "Merry Christmas" with a Christian picture
AND a Christian song attached. I think she really needs to do a
lot more basic work before she can make a decision about this path.
But it's not just newbies who do this, but seasoned veterans as
well. Have we become so conditioned by the dominant culture, that
we unthinkingly mouth these phrases by rote? What does it say about
our being witches - connected and observing of our path? If witches/Wiccans/Pagans
greet each other with "Merry Christmas" with this little
thought, then the religious righters might have cause to be worried
about the submergence of their holiday into the consumeristic mecca
that it has become. And although I don't believe that "Jesus
is the reason for the season" (they need to take a simple astronomy
course here), I do believe that this can become a time when ALL
religions can come together to celebrate peace and joy and giving
and hope.
So let's think about the meaning of this season. We celebrate the
returning sun, the growing light, rebirth and reflection. Greet
the dawn with thanks for the returning warmth. And try greeting
your Pagan friends with something more in line with your beliefs.
Believe me, changing this takes thought and effort.
Wow - a little Yule magick in the making.